The Bachelor Season 29, Episode 4: A Journey Through Emotion and Drama
The fourth episode of The Bachelor Season 29, featuring Grant Ellis, took viewers on an emotional rollercoaster as the journey moved from Los Angeles to Madrid, Spain. With 10 women remaining, the episode was filled with romantic dates, intense drama, and unexpected turns. Grant’s quest for love deepened as he connected with the women on a more personal level, but the competition also brought out the claws, leading to some intense conflicts and even a self-elimination. This episode was a perfect blend of romance, vulnerability, and catty drama, keeping viewers hooked from start to finish.
A Date to Remember: Grant and Dina Explore Spain
The episode kicked off with Grant taking Dina Lupancu, a 31-year-old attorney from Chicago, on a one-on-one date. The two immersed themselves in Spanish culture, strolling through the charming town of Chinchón, playing soccer with local kids, and even taking dance lessons in the street. Dina, who described herself as an "ice queen," began to open up to Grant during a romantic rowboat ride, where they discovered a shared love language—giving. Over dinner, Dina shared her upbringing in a large family of 13, explaining how it shaped her guarded personality. Grant, who admitted to neglecting his ex-partner for his career, assured Dina that he now values relationships and could see her in his future. Dina’s vulnerability and strength clearly impressed Grant, as he awarded her a rose, acknowledging that she had "surpassed" his expectations.
Group Date Drama: Bulls, Tears, and Tension
The group date was nothing short of chaotic. Grant took eight women—Carolina, Alexe, Litia, Natalie, Rose, Parisa, Zoe, and Juliana—to a bullring in Chinchón, where they learned to be matadors under the guidance of a famous matadora, Caren Calderon. The date took a fun turn with a mechanical bull riding competition, which Zoe won, earning her extra time with Grant. However, the afterparty quickly turned emotional. Zoe, who had earlier shared a heartrending story about her adoption and feelings of unworthiness, connected deeply with Grant. Her vulnerability resonated with him, making her a strong contender for the group date rose. But just as Grant was about to award it, Carolina, who had been expressing doubts about the process all episode, caused another stir. Her candid discussion about her mixed emotions and hesitations frustrated the other women, particularly Juliana, who confronted her. Carolina eventually pulled Grant aside, explaining her fears of rushing into a proposal. Grant encouraged her to focus on their connection, but the drama left him unsure, and he decided not to give out the group date rose.
Sarafiena’s Leap of Faith: A Bond Forged in the Rain
Grant’s second one-on-one date with Sarafiena Watkins, an associate media director from New York, was an adrenaline-packed adventure. The two went bungee jumping off a bridge in the pouring rain—a daunting task, especially for someone like Sarafiena, who admitted to being scared of heights. Despite her fears, she comforted Grant, who was also nervous, and they shared a memorable upside-down kiss during the jump. Over dinner, Sarafiena opened up about her hesitancy to show affection on camera, revealing that she was mindful of her mom watching at home. She also shared her experience of growing up without a father, a struggle Grant could relate to. Their connection deepened, and they ended the night with passionate kisses under the stars. Grant was smitten, praising Sarafiena’s genuineness and readiness for love, and he awarded her a rose.
Cocktail Party Tears and Goodbyes
The episode took a somber turn during the cocktail party. Grant addressed his concerns about the group date drama, pulling Juliana aside to discuss Carolina’s negative attitude. Juliana expressed her frustration with Carolina’s constant doubts, which she felt were unfair to the other women. Grant then confronted Carolina, who defended her reservations, explaining that her cautious nature stemmed from taking the process seriously. Grant understood her perspective but urged her to communicate her concerns directly to him instead of the other women. The tension escalated when Carolina broke down in tears, feeling attacked by the group. Meanwhile, Rose, still reeling from the drama in Episode 3, reached her breaking point. She tearfully decided to leave the show, telling Grant that she couldn’t recover from their earlier confrontation. Despite her emotional exit, Grant respected her decision and let her go.
Rose Ceremony: Who’s Staying and Who’s Leaving?
With two women already safe—Dina and Sarafiena—Grant proceeded with the rose ceremony, where he awarded roses to Litia and Carolina. While Carolina’s drama dominated the episode, Grant chose to give her another chance, showing that he valued her honesty and was willing to work through their challenges. However, the night ended with three women heading home: Natalie, Parisa, and Rose. As the remaining contestants packed their bags for Edinburgh, Scotland, the pressure continued to mount. Grant’s journey to love is far from over, and with Carolina’s lingering doubts and the growing connections with women like Dina and Sarafiena, the competition is heating up.
As fans eagerly await Episode 5, one thing is clear: Grant’s relationships are becoming more meaningful, but the drama and self-doubt are far from over. With only six women left, the stakes are higher than ever. Will Grant find his perfect match, or will the pressure of the show tear them apart? Tune in next week to find out.
